Girls, I'm confused please chime in - (Muscles)?

Okay, here's the thing: all girls are different in just about every way imaginable. In my opinion, bodybuilder big muscles are a HUGE turnoff. It's extremely unhealthy to bodybuild and I wouldn't want to associate myself with someone who harms themselves and, in a way, flaunts it everywhere they go. Yeah, I like a sufficient amount of muscle, most other girls do, too. It helps bring us a sense of safety and protection, allowing us to open up to you more easily. So, yeah. A little muscle is good, just don't go bodybuilder. But still, the MOST IMPORTANT THING is to always stay true to who you are. One day, someone special will come along and she won't care how big your muscles are, because she'll love you for just being you. Good luck. I really hope things turn out right for you =)