Men, would you expect your wife to adhere to these Islamic laws of marriage?

A man should not refuse his wife either. It is obligatory for a spouse to respond to the other's sexual needs, not just the wife because this is a way of preventing adultery. As for that IslamQA website, this is what the Quranic verse meant: a href="http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w_abuse_badawi.htm." rel="nofollow"http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w…/a If the wife refuses for no reason then that's between Allah and her. The husband should not hit her because she won't comply and under no circumstance is he allowed stop spending on her.